My ex used to say i can get any girl i want and get her to do anything for me and i am single from ages lol?

Well i myself decided to stay away from relationship and stuff and give some relaxing time to myself on my last breakup. and its been a few months since that and now i feel its hard for me to get back in. i don't see commit able girls around and i guess i am loosing my smooth too. how do i land back on stability?