Wat's more sensible to choose between true love & a career in bollywood (fame, money but uncertainty of work)?

Basically the situation is such that getting both is close to impossible.. one is true love which is once in a lifetime thing and the other is trying out in a career in bollywood (music industry) where something may happen or may not at all but if it does then all the things like fame & money are worth leaving the only person u love? family support is there for trying out but from the lover's point of view, stability in life with job and a settled life is very important rather than giving years to something so uncertain. Another point from the lover's pov is that obollywood's fame is very momentary and that one should think about life more practically. After all this, what's the sensible step? going with your family's wish to try at the stake of your lover or just forgetting about the talent (which was once a dream) beacuse it involves uncertainty etc.. ?? please give your view keeping all factors in mind. thankyou.