Aspergers how will I survive and be independent???!!!?

Hi I have Aspergers syndrome and I'm 20. I dont know directions and I'm not a very good driver. I have never had a girlfriend. I don't have a lot of friends. I'm messy and disorganized. I don't know if I'll ever be able to live by myself. I get used all the time because I'm too nice. How will I survive??!!!